Esoteric. In this one word, I am completely defined. While one might judge my character solely upon my outer appearance (as a Black BBW who grew up and lives in Washington, DC), I am more than a size, race, or whatever grouping one may assign. More importantly, I am uniquely ME. I am an intellectual lady who prefers provoking conversations over pickup lines and bedroom babble. With a philosophical inclination somewhere between Darwin and Nietzsche, it is best said: to know and accept the person I am, takes time and sincere effort.
I am a full-figured, Black lady living within the inner city limits of Washington, DC. As a, true-to-form, taurean lady, I am known by others to be very dependable, honest, and loyal. I am reserved, relaxed, intellectual and witty. I can also be serious, cynical, and extremely bull-headed. I am a college educated professional analyst and paralegal with a bachelors in Psychology (oh and I'm an INTJ for those familiar with Myers-Briggs).
Although I am introverted, I am a world traveler. I've been to Germany, England, Denmark, Japan, and Australia. I want to visit Greece, Russia, Cairo, and the Netherlands).
I love Literature (Classics, Philosophical, Theological and Supernatural) and Music (Primarily J-Rock & Downtempo: Acid Jazz and Trip-Hop (considered lounge/chill-out music as well as Opera & Classical (especially strings).
I appreciate visual art (especially Hellenistic/ surrealism genres and sculptures).
I love cultural exploration (I'm a member of the Japan-America Society of Washington DC).
I adore cats and dogs as well as anime & manga.
My Ideal Person:
Primarily I am seeking a single, classy, assertive, and financially-secure, professional gentleman (preference for caucasian and asian but I am open to others) who goes to the opera because he loves it, appreciates visual arts and travels abroad. I am hoping to find a man who would happily join me in a box seat at a Kennedy Center performance, for fine dining at local restaurants, relaxing to chill tunes at classy lounges (e.g. the 18th Street Lounge), and hop a train or plan to parts unknown (be it across the globe or a lazy weekend getaway).
He should be a great conversationalist and equally capable of expressing himself in writing. It's serious turn off when I get one-line messages and requests for me to call or hop into a chat with someone. He has to be able to capture my interest in that first message.
I have expressed who I am and what I seek in detail, I expect equal effort from anyone sincerely interested in spending time with me.
Note: While I am looking for a friend, there is always the possibility of stronger feelings developing. I also know men tend to hope for more. With that said, I have genital herpes so this is something to be considered he you are seeking more than friendship.
While not necessary, he's an extra plus on my radar if he's a D. or M. type into D/s or M/s dynamics (also great if you're on FL or CM).
Most importantly, he should be in my local area as I want to spend time going out to events and that is hard to do when the two are not local to each other.
Please do not assumes that I am insecure/vain and will be impressed by someone who solely sends one or two line compliments about my looks, nor will I be impressed with someone who says "I like your profile" or "I like how you think," without showing me specifically what it is you like. It is more important to me that a man, in his written communications with me, is able to provide details about who they are, what common interests we have, and what they are honestly seeking. I will not be rushed to talk on the phone or meet someone that I feel is unable to present, in writing (message and/or profile), a clear picture of who they are as a total person.
What would you do on an ideal date?:
Getting food delivered, renting movies and snuggling by the fireplace.
What words best describe your personality?:
Intelligent, Moody, Realist, Cautious, Loyal, Caring, Open
What animal best describes your personality?:
Rat
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