Im interested in a relationship, but Im not convinced that being single is such a bad thing.
I have seen too many people pursue mediocre relationships, make compromises at the expense of compatibility, self-respect, sanity -- largely out of a fear of being alone. Im sympathetic but resistant to this anxiety. Im feeling a responsibility to make something meaningful of my life with or without a partner. I can admit it, Im extremely picky.
I might be mildly quiet or shy in social settings, but when it matters, I have a firm sense of my perceptions, ethics, tastes, and a devastating sense of humor. Im good at admitting I don't know things and acknowledging when I screwed up. Im honest to a fault, compulsively considerate, a good talker, and an even better listener. I read a lot and music is very important to me. Im comfortable in mind and body.
I do have two awesome boys that live with me. Please don't email me if that is something you can't deal with.
My Ideal Person:
Perfect. Who is. Just a normal guy who take me for what I'am. Doesn't want to change me. Excepts my kids.
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