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understanding
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Apr 6, 2012 5:56 pm
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My life isn't perfect, but I’ve learned to value its imperfections, 'coz these are what honest to be the person who I am now.
Friendship, Closeness, Laughter. These are the three things I highly value in any relationship, for these three things to happen “communication” is “perfect”, so if you don’t want to exchange a few words with me every now and then, please don’t bother me . ^_^
I am extremely honest, sincere, and wish to find the same, fascinated by people with a different culture from my own, and it's always interesting to explore their different values and point of views.
let's laugh together ... it is the shortest distance between two people ^_^
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What’s Missing From Our Relationships? Respect!
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Mar 25, 2012 5:10 am
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Claim Your Self Worth Back!
Now, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt, and I know that not all men operate in the same manner as these “gentlemen,” because at the very least, I know a few individuals who are the exception. Nonetheless I was surprised by what the men described believed would pass for a decent approach.
The overarching problem seemed to be that the men didn’t respect the women for who they were; the men were too focused on what they could get instead of what they could give. They weren’t genuinely interested in the woman — who she was, what she wanted out of life, where she was going, what she was doing — they were focused on what was in her pants, what was in her blouse, and how they could use those things for their own pleasure.
You see, men, a woman will never respect you, if you don’t first respect her. Regardless of whether or not she treats herself with respect and dignity, you as a man, should respect her. Period. Wouldn’t you want men to respect your mother, your daughter, or your sister? She is someone’s mother, daughter, or sister. Respect her because you would want it done to yours.
You will never violate, or have a fling with, or one night stand with someone you respect. If you don’t respect them, well, you’ll do just about anything to them.
The problem lies in that we often don’t understand that we were not designed to jump from partner to partner like a game of hopscotch; we were created to partner and bond with one person for the rest of our lives (that’s where the whole “till death do us part” thing comes into play). Without a proper understanding of the type of relationships that we were made for, we’ll constantly be misplacing our efforts into relationships where there is no respect, mutual or other
If I know that I could potentially be spending the rest of my life with you, how can I not respect you from the jump? The commitment demands I respect, not only you, but myself, and the relationship, and the potential which lies within it.
What I learned from the conversation was this: The foundation of any relationship should be friendship. And inherent with friendship, comes respect. You cannot be friends with someone and not respect them. It just doesn’t work.
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the rich verse the poor who are richer
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Feb 9, 2012 11:34 am
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One day a rich dad took his son on a trip. He wanted to show him how poor someone can be. They spent time on the farm of a poor family. On the way home, the father asked, did you see how poor they are? What did you learn? Son said... We have one dog, they have four. We have a pool they have a river. We have lanterns at night, they have stars. We buy food they grow theirs. We have walls to protect us, they have friends. We have encyclopedias, they have the bible. Then he added: thanks dad for showing me how poor we are. Lesson: it is not money that makes us rich it is simplicity & having God in our lives.
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lost in time
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Feb 6, 2012 3:08 pm
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1ST VERSE:
THERE'S A KNOCK OUTSIDE MY DOOR... IT'S YOU AGAIN
THERE'S A KISS THAT LETS ME KNOW, THIS LOVE WON'T END
THERE'S A LIFE, THERE'S A TOUCH, AND A SMILE WHEN WE'RE MAKIN' LOVE
AND ALL IS PERFECT IN MY LONELY WORLD AGAIN
AS WE LAY, WE MAKE A PLAN FOR LIFE TOGETHER
HOLDING ON WITH ALL OUR MIGHT FOR WORST, OR BETTER
I CAN'T BELEIVE, CAN'T CONCEIVE OF THE TIME THAT YOU'RE NOT WITH ME
BUT IN A FLASH, I'M IN THIS LONELY ROOM AGAIN
CHORUS:
I DON'T WANNA' STAY HERE LOST IN TIME
I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS HEART OF MINE
I KEEP HOLDIN' ON TO FANTASY
NEVER LETTING GO OF YOU AND ME
I DON'T WANNA' STAY HERE LOST W/O YOU
2ND VERSE:
THERE'S A HOUSE UPON THE HILL. I HEAR THE LAUGHTER
AND OUR CHILDREN SEEM TO GROW, EACH YEAR, MUCH FASTER
WE'RE ALONE NOW IN THIS EMPTINESS, AND LOVE STILL GROWS
BUT ONLY VISIONS OF A LIFE THAT SHOULD'VE BEEN
CHORUS:
I DON'T WANNA' STAY HERE LOST IN TIME
I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS HEART OF MINE
I KEEP HOLDIN' ON TO FANTASY
NEVER LETTING GO OF YOU AND ME
I DON'T WANNA' STAY HERE LOST W/O YOU
BRIDGE:
YOU ARE...THE ONLY ONE, I'M HOLDIN' ON, FOR ALWAYS
MY HEART...AN ETERNAL LIGHT, SHININ' BRIGHT IN YOUR GAME
SO FAR...I CAN'T LET GO, WON'T LET GO. AND THAT'S WHY...
WON'T FACE REALITY, UNTIL I BRING YOU BACK TO ME
CHORUS REPEAT 3X'S AND FADE)
I DON'T WANNA' STAY HERE LOST IN TIME
I DON'T UNDERSTAND THIS HEART OF MINE
I KEEP HOLDIN' ON TO FANTASY
NEVER LETTING GO OF YOU AND ME
I DON'T WANNA' STAY HERE LOST WITH OUT YOU
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jus a thought
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Oct 4, 2011 12:41 pm
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who cares how many tears you cry so you might as well laugh
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loyalty
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Aug 22, 2011 6:02 am
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look not for beauty
nor for the color of the skin
look the heart that is loyal within
for beauty will fade
and skin will grow old
but a heart is loyal
it never grow cold
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VALUE THE THINGS
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Feb 28, 2011 5:46 pm
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TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING
THROUGH THE DESERT
DURING SOME POINT OF THE
JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN
ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND
SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE
IN THE FACE
THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED
WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT
SAYING ANYTHING,
WROTE IN THE SAND
TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE
THEY KEPT ON WALKING,
UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS,
WHERE THEY DECIDED
TO TAKE A BATH
THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN
SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE
MIRE! AND STARTED DROWNING,
BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM.
AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM
THE NEAR DROWNING,
HE WROTE ON A STONE:
'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SAVED MY LIFE'
THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED
AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND
ASKED HIM, 'AFTER I HURT YOU,
YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW,
YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?'
THE FRIEND REPLIED
'WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US
WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN
IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF
FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY.
BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES
SOMETHING GOOD FOR US,
WE MUST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE
WHERE NO WIND
CAN EVER ERASE IT'
LEARN TO WRITE
YOUR HURTS IN
THE SAND AND TO
CARVE YOUR
BENEFITS IN STONE.
THEY SAY IT TAKES A
MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL
PERSON, AN HOUR TO
APPRECIATE THEM
A DAY
TO LOVE THEM, BUT THEN
AN ENTIRE LIFE
TO FORGET THEM.
SEND THIS TO
THE PEOPLE YOU'LL NEVER
FORGET.
I JUST DID.
IF YOU DON'T
SEND IT TO ANYONE,
IT MEANS YOU'RE IN A
HURRY AND THAT YOU'VE
FORGOTTEN YOUR FRIENDS
TAKE THE TIME TO LIVE!
DO NOT YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE, BUT VALUE
WHO YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE
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this is simply beautiful
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Nov 3, 2010 6:36 pm
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sometimes I really do not take the time to read the lovely comments we receive. Let's see if you read this. Think about it for a minute If I show up on your doorstep crying, would you mind? If you call and ask you to pick me up because something happened, Would you come with me? If I had one day left, would you be with me some of that last day? If you need a shoulder to mourn, "Can I have yours? This is a test to see who your real friends or just as you have someone to talk to when bored. You know what is the relationship between your two eyes? They open and close together, move together, mourn together, they see things together and sleep together .. that's what friendship is. Your aspiration is your motivation, your motivation is your belief, your belief is your peace, your peace is your goal, your goal is heaven, and life is as hard core torture without her. Who is your best friend? Send this to all your good friends. Even me, if I am one of them. See how many recover. If you receive more than 3 then "You really are a good person .. what else could you tell me if distance separates us but still are in my heart.
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still hold on to the pass
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Jul 12, 2010 8:15 pm
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Broken hearts are never healed. They haunt us for a lifetime even if we find someone else. Our past teaches us lessons that make us more aware and more human. Why then do we feel so hurt knowing it can only get better? Breaking up with someone you care about is one of the toughest decisions any of us will ever have to go through. Dealing with the pain and heart break is never easy. We just have to live the days as they are set out and not live in the pass Letting go isn't giving up its accepting the facts that things aren't meant to be. Moving on is a true challenge to overcome.
There are things you don't want to happen but you have to accept and there are things you don't want to know but you have to learn and there are people you can't live without but you have to let go...
You can't cry and feel depressed your whole life. That only leads to self destruction.
We all want to be treated like a queen or king and respected for who they are. Love is not a game. Messing with someone's emotions can lead to serious consequences
Almost everyone has experienced a tough break-up at least once and we each react differently to the breakdown of a relationship. You can help yourself get through it. Realize, decide, know, believe, and remember.
Getting over a breakup hurts like hell but only if you make it that way.
Life
Overflows
Vessel
Eternal
Love: (def:n)
A feeling of deep regard fondess, and devotion for; deep affection usually accompanied by yearning or desire for; affection between persons more or less founded on or combined with desire or passion; an unconditional state of bliss and ecstasy with lifeBookmark
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