As a Westerner I have difficulty to understand young women who have relationships with older men. I would like to know what the appeal of these men to you is and what kind of relationship you had or have. Good or bad. I have been in China for over 6 months now and I see that a majority of fifty-year old Westerners (men) are seeking relationships with young Asiatic women. I feel personally sorry for the girls because these men are often only after one thing: <b>\bsexo?\b</b>. They also have a past which often include ex wives and children. Often these men don’t have relationships with their children from previous relationships. What kind of future can they give an Asiatic woman with such a background? Please let me know what you think.